Life is unfair for trans people from the moment of their birth. They are people who are trapped in the wrong body. They have to go through the disrespect and isolation of the society. However, there are still some people who can understand and cherish them. Nonetheless, transgender people are not like other ordinary people, they are more sensitive. Some people may find it is a little hard to date them and really go into their hearts. Here we provide you some tips to date trans people.
1. Be more sensitive
Most trans know there are many people who harbor malicious intentions toward them, thinking that they are freaks. They are harmed for so many times. It is inevitable that they are much more sensitive than others. Therefore, you must be careful of what you are saying and doing. For example, if you are dating a transgender man, you shouldn’t blame him for being too girly or pussy. You should prevent using such sensitive words, even when joking. If you are dating a transgender woman, you should be more careful, especially do not look at other women during your date and do not appraise the feminine the other girls is.
2. Hide your curiosity
It is normal that you are curious about his/her transition. But remember to hide you curiosity about this. For all trans, their transition is a highly private and bitter topic. Do not ask unless he/she tell you on his/her own initiative. The most curious part for you is maybe the reproductive organ. Remember this is absolutely the silliest question if you ask. But what is worse than asking is that to tempt his/her on purpose. You mustn’t touch his/her sensitive position, no matter by accident or deliberately, or he/she would be furious and your relationship will be ended right away. This is very disrespectful and also an act of bad manner, which is wrong in every way.
3. Offer compliments
Many trans are not confident enough about themselves even though they are really pretty in other people’s eyes. Transgender women often wonder if they are feminine enough and transgender men would afraid they can’t offer their girlfriend a sense of safety. Therefore, if you really want to win him/her over, you should praise him/her more often. They say that compliment is the best cure, which is very true. Praise her how good looking and sexy she is in this dress. Protect her from potential danger and make her feel that she is a little prince and is cherished by you.
For almost all transgenders, they are people who are soft inside and hard outside. They may build up high and solid walls to protect themselves from getting hurt for that they’ve already had enough. If you really care about them, you just need to be a little more patient and considerate. Just wait a little longer, they will open heart for you.